Yes, I admit it. I am on Facebook. I update my status regularly, am a frequent SuperPoker, send kisses and hugs and check out shoe of the day. I am friends with my nieces and nephews, past and present students and colleagues, and even people I don’t know but met on Facebook. Why? What is the fascination with knowing that X has a hangover, reading (in Swedish) that my brother-in-law is sitting in the rain in Thailand or sitting next to a colleague in the office and poking them (and not with a pencil but virtually)?
I guess it is all about contact and the need for it. I moved to Denmark just over three years ago, as an adult who had a career and network of friends back home, so for me, email and, yes, Facebook, are essential ways for me to keep in touch and share news. I guess too it is all about being part of a group and showing your tribal roots. Why else should I post information about my ethnic background and music tastes?
We know that social networking sites are a way to renew contacts and make new contacts, to chat, flirt and yes, have fun, without leaving your own home. They exhibit how technology is hijacked and used by people in a way the original producers did not envisage. New worlds and societies can be built virtually where we can open up our thoughts, feelings and ideas that we might not do so easily in the real world. They can remind us of the old and bring us the new.
But as with many things in life, these networks bring their problems. There have been cases of bullying on Facebook, identity theft and the issue of over commercialization. Spam is becoming a problem. Moreover, questions have been raised about access to Facebook profiles by employers or prospective employers trying to find out things about you (though anyone with half a brain edits what can and can’t be seen on their profile and who can see it). Now it seems we are facing ‘Facebook fatigue’, with people leaving the network http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2008/feb/22/facebook.facebook and joining more specialised networks or professional networks which claim to offer more targeted services. I just looked at one of them, WAYN.com, which is supposed to be a ’specialist’ network for travellers. It looks to me just like Facebook but with more colours and offers pretty much the same sort of stuff. Note – I won’t be going back – it has an English flag to represent ‘nationality British’ which, coming from Scotland, is about the most insulting you can get as well as not exactly professional for a travel site.
I’ve just had a look at my Facebook profile and it suddenly struck me that it looks like my teenage scrap book where I pasted pictures, copied out favourite poems and wrote a list of my favourite films and books. I got tired of that in the end. Maybe I will of Facebook too.
In the meantime, I am off to do a quiz, invite 20 of my friends to take it too so I can find out which character in some TV show I am most like, flirt with a stranger in Australia, throw a sheep and bite someone’s neck.


